To Pray or Not to Pray

1081-1259261096uElp"For me, prayer is a surge of the heart; it is a simple look turned toward heaven, it is a cry of recognition and of love, embracing both trial and joy." ~ St. ThéRèse of Lisieux ~




A few girls recently asked me to write a blog about prayer. Now this made me giggle at first because I thought: girl+prayer=mind running in 50 trillion directions.

distracted-girl-15049452I get it, this happens to me every day and I just want to tell myself “Calm down and think of one thing at a time.” If only it were that easy!

I struggle to stay focussed whether I’m in Mass, reading the Bible, praying the Rosary, or spontaneously praying. It’s difficult!

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Be a Shirley not a Wrecking Ball

John-Boles-and-Shirley-TempleI don’t know about you, but I grew up watching the Shirley Temple movies. My all time favorite was The Littlest Rebel. I cry every time when Shirley’s mom dies and I have a huge crush on John Boles who plays Shirley’s dad.

Monday, this childhood actrice died at the age of 85. I find it sad that many people’s response is, “I didn’t know she was still alive.”

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Hard Work vs. Agenda (Sochi Olympics)

Travis OlympicsI’m having a difficult time with the recognition of homosexuals at the forefront of President Obama’s message for the 2014 Olympics. This could open the floor to conversations on multiple levels. (Feel free to comment.) However, I bring this up for one reason.

I love the olympics and always make a tremendous effort to watch them — discrimination should have nothing to do with it. From bobsledding to ice skating, I love watching any of the sports due to the respect I have for all the athletes competing.

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Catholic Around the World

pope-francis-brazilSometimes we have this idea that America is the only place in the world.

As young Catholics we forget there are other people in different countries who speak different languages, but are Catholic. They stand for the same exact things Catholics in the US stand for!

Do you ever feel alone, like the only person who is pro-life or believes homosexuality doesn’t jive?

Here’s a taste of the universality of our faith… Catholics across the world:

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jeremiah-29-11-plans-coverI realized today how cherished I am by the men in my life, even those who lack respect for other women. Why is it that a friend who otherwise sleeps with every other girl he speaks with can respect and cherish me in a pure and sisterly way?

This is something I want for you girls. Any man, no matter his background can cherish you for one reason: because it has everything to do with who you are.

483370_10151568892332359_883300764_nI certainly do not have it all figured out but I have realized some things about my friendships, particularly with the male gender. Story time . . .

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41 Years to Go?

Screen shot 2014-01-22 at 8.46.54 AMI wonder if 41 years from now, as I venture into old age, if today will mark the 82nd anniversary of Roe v. Wade — the supreme court decision legalizing abortion through all nine months of a woman’s pregnancy in the United States.

I wonder if the many marches will continue in 2055. Will hope be lost after 50 or 70 years of legalized abortion?

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remain calm all is wellWhy is it that highs are so high and lows so low? It’s as if we constantly wait to grasp on to something exciting or devastating in life. Always searching for the next new thing.

In other words, when life is flatline it’s often not enough.

flatlineI work in a pregnancy resource center that helps women in crisis pregnancy. One thing the center director often notes is that the beautiful women coming in the door have a difficult time living with everything being calm and okay.

It’s as if people crave or even create a storm around themselves, especially us girls.

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Twerk That

imageLadies, please take a minute to watch the video if nothing else.

Many of us have gotten a laugh or two our of the ridiculous twerking videos gone wrong.

While some of the videos are admittedly funny, twerking is quite the thing for girls to do whether on the dance floor or on YouTube for all eyes to see. I know some people may find this video provocative, but I think the provocative topics itself can be addressed with the the appropriate bluntness.

This video poses due consideration for all who find themselves tempted or otherwise accustomed to eye twerking surroundings . . .

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Life or Death: Downton Abbey Season Four

r-DOWNTON-ABBEY-SEASON-4-PREMIERE-DATE-large570Downton Abbey **Spoiler Alert**

I have to say — I am obsessed with Downton Abbey. From Mary to Thomas this show has my full attention. I dreaded missing the last episode of season three last year while travelling in Europe. Upon finishing the third season I was devastated by the death of Matthew.

Downton Abbey Mary and MatthewFinally, Downton Abbey is back! No matter how hard I tried to get my hands on this season early I had to wait till the US premiere this past Sunday. Ladies, there is something about this show that leaves us aching for more. Sunday couldn’t have come soon enough.

Last night I was talking about how much Downton Abbey has taught me. It constantly has my wheels turning with the many responsibilities and challenges facing each character. After six months of grieving the loss of Matthew, Mary is told by her grandmother she must choose between life and death.

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Christmas Poinsettias Prophets Going to Planned Parenthood

christmas-poinsettias-flowers-766011Planned Parenthood is once again raking in the money from everyday people, even during the Christmas season. The festive poinsettia plants that are used to decorate churches and homes over the Christmas season are helping to fund Planned Parenthood.

Paul Ecke Ranch, the world's largest distributor of poinsettias, is a large benefactor of Planned Parenthood. For years Paul Ecke's family has been recognized as one of the largest abortion supporters in San Diego.

This Christmas season please purchase your poinsettia plants with caution this year, by checking if the poinsettia came from Ecke's Ranch.  It may be a small thing to you but the contribution to our nations largest abortion and contraceptive provider is a big deal.


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